Saturday, October 29, 2011

7 Ways to Improve Your Relationship with The Qur’an!


وَقَالَ الرَّسُولُ يَا رَبِّ إِنَّ قَوْمِي اتَّخَذُوا هَٰذَا الْقُرْآنَ مَهْجُورًا”
“O my Lord, indeed my people have taken this Qur’an as a thing (abandoned)”  [Surah 25: 30]
ARE you one of those people who rarely touch the Qur’an? Or do you read daily, but don’t find it is having the impact on you that it should? Whatever the case may be, these are some simple tips that can help you connect with the Qur’an.

1. Before you touch it, check your heart

The key to really benefiting from the Qur’an is to check your heart first, before you even touch Allah’s Book. Ask yourself, honestly, why you are reading it. Is it to just get some information and to let it drift away from you later? Remember that the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was described by his wife as a “walking Qur’an”: in other words, he didn’t just read and recite the Qur’an, he lived it.

2. Do your Wudu (ablution)

Doing your Wudu is good physical and mental preparation to remind you that you’re not reading just another book. You are about to interact with God, so being clean should be a priority when communicating with Him.

3. Read at least 5 minutes everyday

Too often, we think we should read Qur’an for at least one whole hour. If you aren’t in the habit of reading regularly, this is too much. Start off with just five minutes daily. If you took care of step one, (God willing), you will notice that those five minutes will become 10, then half an hour, then an hour, and maybe even more!

4. Make sure you understand what you’ve read

Five minutes of reading the Qur’an in Arabic is good, but you need to understand what you’re reading. Make sure you have a good translation of the Qur’an in the language you understand best. Always try to read the translation of what you’ve read that day.

5. Remember, the Qur’an is more interactive than a CD

In an age of “interactive” CD-Roms and computer programs, a number of people think books are passive and boring. But the Qur’an is not like that. Remember that when you read the Qur’an, you are interacting with Allah. He is talking to you, so pay attention.

6. Don’t just read; listen too

There are now many audio cassettes and CDs of the Qur’an, a number of them with translations as well. This is great to put on your walkman or your car’s CD or stereo as you drive to and from work. Use this in addition to your daily Qur’an reading, not as a replacement for it.

7. Make Dua (supplication)

Ask Allah to guide you when you read the Qur’an. Your aim is to sincerely, for the love of Allah, interact with Him by reading, understanding and applying His blessed words. Making Dua to Allah for help and guidance will be your best tool for doing this.



(source : islamteachings.org)

BINATANGGGGG!!

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familiar dgn title tu?
selalu org2 kita guna ketika dalam keadaan marah.
"kau memang binatang..."
contoh dialog lagi.
dari gambar atas ni pun, bule dapat tangkap motif sebenar gambar.
kata, binatang tiada otak.
tapi kadang2 aku rasa manusia pun ada yg tdk berotak.
jangan berprasangka buruk sangat la dgn binatang.
manusia & binatang masing2 di cipta oleh Allah.
so masing2 ada kelebihan.
contoh mcm anjing tu, 
kalau aku panggil kau anjing kau marah.
tapi kalau kau tgk gambar atas ni,
pandai pulak kau mau nangis-manja-eee-pintarnya-anjing-tu
huh what ever la =D


jgn kau pandai tambah2 cerita itu Law di China,
nda pasal2 blog pun kena haram.

The Obligatory Conditions For An Islamic Hijab


1.Covering all Of The Body

It is an agreed position by many respected scholars that the face and hands of the woman must be covered. Some scholars say it is permissible to uncover the face and the hands of the woman as long as there is no fitna (infatuation) caused by this action. Two things must be taken into consideration

a) if she is beautiful and beautifies her face and hands with external substances, or

b) the society around her is corrupt where men do not lower their gaze, then it is prohibited for her to uncover her face and hands.

On the authority of the wife of the prophet (pbuh), Umm Salama (RA) said:

“When the verse was revealed that they should cast their outer garments over their bodies’ was revealed, the women of Ansar came out as if they had crows over their heads by wearing outer garments.

2.The hijab must not be a display

The hijab itself must not be a display. Allah ordained it so as to cover the beauty of women and not for showing off. Allah (swt) says `And not show of their adornment except only that which is apparent.’ (S24:31).

AND

`And stay in your houses and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance.’ (S33:33).

It is in no way logical that the hijab itself be a source of display.

3. The hijab must not be transparent

The purpose of wearing hijab must be achieved. In order for the hijab to be a cover, it must not be made of transparent material making the woman covered only by name, while in reality she is naked. The prophet (pbuh) is quoted as saying: “In the latest part of my Ummah (nation of Muslims) there shall be women who would be naked in spite of being dressed, they have their hair high like the humps of the Bukht camel, curse them, for they are cursed. They will not enter Al-Jannah and would not even perceive its odour, although it’s fragrance can be perceived from a distance of 500 years travelling by camel” This indicates that a woman could cause herself a grave and destructive sin if she puts on a garment that is thin and transparent and which clearly shapes her body’s features.

4.Hijab must be roomy, and not tight.

The hijab is a safeguard against fitna. If it is tight, it will be descriptive of the woman’s body and this violates and defeats the whole purpose of hijab.

5.The hijab must not be perfumed

On the authority of Ad’Diya Al-Maqdisi, the prophet (pbuh) said:

“Any woman who perfumes herself and passes by some people that they smell her scent, then she is a Zaniyah (adulteress).”

6. The hijab shouldn’t resemble the dress of a man

Imam Ahmed, an-Nissa’ee reported the prophet (pbuh) to have said: “Women who assume the manners of men are not from us and also those of men who assume the manners of women.” Abu Huraira narrated that: “The Prophet (pbuh) CURSED the man who wears the dress of a woman and the woman who wears the dress of a man.”

7.The hijab must not resemble the garments of the kuffar

Abu Dawoud and Ahmed have related the prophet (pbuh) said: “The one who take the similitude (manner) of a certain people, then he/she becomes one of them.”

Abdullah bin Ummar (RA) said: “The Prophet (pbuh) saw me wearing two garments dyed in saffron (orange), whereupon he said: these are the clothes (usually worn) by the kuffar, so do not wear them.”

8.The hijab should not be for fame

Abu Dawoud and Ibn Majah have related the prophet to saying: “The one who wears a garment designed for a worldly fame, Allah will make them wear a garment of humility on the Day Of Resurrection then he will be set ablaze.” The garment of fame is any garment a person wears to make themselves look famous. This applies whether the garment is highly precious and shows admiration to the life of this world or if it is chosen of a low quality to show lack of interest to this worldly life. The person may put on clothes with distinct colours so as to draw attention, act proudly and/or arrogantly.

9.Concealed ways of display

Examining the various conditions about the hijab one can clearly recognise that many of the young Muslim women are not fulfilling these conditions. Many just take “half-way” measures, which not only mocks the community in which she lives, but also mocks the commands of Allah (swt). They consider what they put on now wrongly as “hijab” So, O muslimoon, be mindful to Allah (swt) and His Messenger (pbuh), and do not deceived by those who “bless” this action of yours and conceal their true intentions. Do not be deceived, and there is no excuse to follow the evil.

(source : abdurrahman.org)

Friday, October 28, 2011

english sangat la wedding invi tu, show off kau ya? =D

Peach / Soft Orange / Milky Orange dan yang sewaktu dengannya


color theme ni aku ada upload di Facebook juga. in case kamu terlepas pandang, 
aku ulang upload di entry ni. ada aku kesah kau bosan? =P


ini color theme utk Majlis Sanding. Peach color atau Soft Orange. 
memandangkan aku belum tgk baju kahwin aku, so the exact color pun aku nda pasti la yg mana 1. 
yang penting color aku request adalah SOFT ORANGE,
atau Peach la orang Bajau selalu sebut hahaha!

untuk para tetamu dan family pulak, tiada bebanan la utk color theme ni.
boleh guna apa color saja, tiada bantahan. selagi menepati citarasa org Melayu.
mcm mana citarasa org Melayu? antaranya adalah bersih dan sopan.
ciri-ciri Perempuan Melayu? of course la ayu dgn berbaju kurung.
lantak kau la kurung moden ka, kurung kuno ka, janji kau pakai baju la.
pakai sedondon sangat-sangat la di hargai di hari penuh makna ini.
kenapa bermakna? sebab ini la yang di tentukan Allah.

senyum ok senyum, cakap lebih2 kau kena petir nanti =D

Bacaan Al-Quran Pada Masa Tertentu Mengikut Sunnah

A. Tiap-tiap pagi dan petang
1. Al-Ikhlas
- menyamai satu pertiga Al-Quran; dibaca 10 kali akan dibina sebuah istana di syurga;
2. Al-Falaq
- dibaca 3 kali untuk perlindungan dari bencana dan segala perkara yang tidak diingini;
3. An-Naas
- sama seperti A-Falaq;
4. Ayatul Kursi (Al-Baqarah - 255)
- pahalanya menyamai satu perempat Al-Quran, dibaca setiap lepas sembahyang akan dimasukkan ke syurga, setiap huruf 1000 keberkatan dan mendapat 1000 rahmat;
5. Al-Mukmin ayat 1-3 (Juz 24 Surah 40)
- untuk keselamatan;
6. Al-Hasyr ayat 21-24 (Juz 28 surah 59)
- apabila dibaca selepas Subuh dan Asar akan mendapat rahmat dan dijaga oleh 70,000 malaikat dan jika meninggal dunia pada malam atau siang hari itu, akan perolehi syurga.


B. Tiap-tiap malam
1. Yaasin (Juz 22 & 23 surah 36)
- Hati Al-Quran, pembacanya akan mendapat keredhaan Allah, keampunan dosa; jika dibaca atas seseorang yang hampir mati akan memudahkan pertemuannya dengan Allah; jika dibaca atas kubur akan diringankan siksa kubur, diberi 80 rahmat kepada pembaca dan diberi Allah akannya perkara-perkara yang menyukakannya.
2. Ad-Dhukhan (Juz 25 surah 44)
- pembaca akan mendapati 7000 malaikat memohon ampun ke atasnya; jika dibaca pada malam atau hari Jumaat akan diberi sebuah rumah di syurga.
3. Al-Qiyamah (Juz 29 surah 75)
4. Al-Zalzalah (juz 30 surah 99)
- pahala membaca seumpama separuh Al-Quran.
5. Al-Ikhlas
6. Al-Imran ayat 190-200 (juz 4 surah 3)
- dibaca pada malam hari akan diberi pahala beribadat separuh malam.
7. Al-Baqarah ayat 284-286 (Juz 2 surah 1)
- diberi pahala beribadat separuh malam dan dijauhi gangguan syaitan dan segala bencana.


C. Sebelum tidur
1. Al-Fatihah
- pahala membacanya memenuhi timbangan amal, menutup segala pintu neraka, dikatakan sama dengan dua pertiga Al-Quran dan 70 kali ganda ayat lain;
2. Bismillah
- dibaca 21 kali sebelum tidur akan memberi keselamatan kepadanya; setiap huruf diberi 4000 kebajikan dan dihapuskan 4000 kejahatan dan diangkat 4000 darjat;
3. Al-Mulk (Juz 29 surah 67)
- diberi syufaat dan diampunkan dosa, pahala sama 60 kebajikan dan dijauhi seksa kubur;
4. As Sajdah (juz 21 surah 32)
- diberi naungan di hari Kiamat; 60 darjat daripada surah lain;
5. Al Kaafirun
- menyamai satu perempat Al-Quran, akan dilepaskan dari azab neraka.

D. Bacaan pada setiap malam dan siang
1. Yassin;
2. Al Mulk;
3. Al Waaqiah - (Juz 27 surah 56) - dijauhi kepapaan;
4. Ad Dukhan

E. Tingkatan pembaca Al-Quran
1. Jutawan - membaca 300 hingga 1000 ayat setiap malam;
2. Jayawan - membaca 200 hingga 299 ayat;
3. Setiawan - membaca 100 hingga 199 ayat;
4. Pemelihara - membaca 50 hingga 99 ayat;
5. Yang ingat - membaca 10 hingga 49 ayat;
6. Yang lalai - membaca 0 hingga 9 ayat.

F. Keutamaan surah-surah lain
1. Ali-Imran
- jika dibaca bersama Al Baqarah akan mendapat pembelaandi hari kiamat dan dikira sebaik-baik perbendaharaan; jika dibaca pada hari Jumaat akan didoakan oleh malaikat sehingga malamnya;
2. Al-Hasyr
- jika dibaca sebelum tidur dan mati pada malam itu,mendapat pahala mati syahid.
3. A'la (juz 30 surah 100)
- menyamai separuh Al-Quran;
4. An Nasr (juz 30 surah 110)
- menyamai seperempat Al-Quran;

(Dipetik dari buku "Amalan harian sepanjang zaman" oleh Al Ustaz Dato' Hj.Ismail Kamus) 
(source : blogzikir)

kerja kahwin saya



aku ni cerewet org nya. ada jak yg nda ngam kalau org lain yg tolong buatkan apa2 la yg berkaitan dgn hal2 aku. padahal benda tu kecil dan senang jak, trus jadi susah kalau suda aku yg masuk campur haha. so bila ada yg nda ngam, mula la mau marah. tapi aku cepat kesiankan org. so bila kesian, nda jadi marah. tapi sendiri makan hati. padan muka la kan?


utk mengelakkan dr terus marah2 org dan makan hati, jalan terbaik ialah 'buat lah kerja kau sendiri'. salah ka nda cantik ka senget ka, kau marah la diri sendiri. makan lah hati diri sendiri. jangan babit kan org lain sudah. faham kau nani? =P


well, itu lah 2 gambar yg sempat aku ambil masa aku sibuk2 buat kerja. hasil kerja tangan pengantin sendiri ok? kau mampu? haha!


buat ala kadar jak, 'simple but nice' itu slogan utk wedding aku. mesti mau ada slogan ok, kau ada? hahaha kena lagi!


buat masa ni, aku sangat berpuas hati la dgn hasil kerja tangan aku. tp aku cuma mampu buat itu jak seperti dlm gambar. lain2 aku nda mampu la woi. setakat print & lekat tag tu, anak jiran sebelah aku pun pandai.


fyi, semua nya bukan la 100% aku yg buat. aku juga menerima bantuan ikhlas dr mereka2 yg beramal secara tdk langsung, mom and my sista. words not enough to thank them la kan org Ida'an bilang. hahahaha!

Some of Allah's Creation





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sometimes you may dislike something in your spouse, 
but maybe Allaah has placed goodness in it for you,


because Allaah, The Greatest Planner!

Status Bujang Kurang Drpd 30 hari



hari2 tgk Wedding Book, konon2 mau semak la apa yg belum buat. tapi bila suda buka Wedding Book, selak 2 3 page, tutup balik. kenapa? sebab, akan bertambah bingung kalau telampau di selak2 huhu!


tiba-tiba teringat pasal Borang Nikah, belum setel lg. tinggal Akuan Sumpah utk tukar wali jak lagi. sedang tunggu Surat Kebenaran Nikah Luar Daerah lagi dr bakal pengantin lelaki. harap-harap semua doc kena terima bila submit nanti. kalau ada yg kena query, byk lagi kerja mau buat. ex-b2b mesti pernah rasa semua ni.


actually Nikah tu senang jak, tp 'law & prosedur' tu yg menyusahkan ramai bakal2 pengantin. sebab tu ramai yg fikir Nikah tu susah.


cerita psl Nikah & Kahwin, of course bakal pengantin perempuan yg sibuk2. sibuk dgn kerja2 tangan dan kerja2 otak. banyak berfikir for sure la. pandai bingung2 lagi, dan last2 lupaaaa! hahaha normal la tu!


nervous? nda payah tunggu hari kahwin la nervous2 nih. start aku b'tunang hari tu lagi suda nervous. bukan setakat nervous, takut + risau + bingung + happy + sedih + mcm2 lagi la perasaan. itu masa bertunang, setahun sebelum tarikh kahwin. skg hanya tggl kurang dari 30 hari jak lagi. perasaan? lu pikir la sendiri. bukan aku yg cakap, Nabil yg cakap. hahaha!


kenapa sedih? sebab arwah bapa nda sempat tgk aku kahwin ='( , ok bye!

Channing Tatum




ini la dia bakal suami saya, hensem kan? ketawa lg kuat2 dan boo sama saya hahaha.

suda tgk muvee Dear John ? kalau belum, better tgk. bila sd tgk, 
confirm jatuh cinta dgn Channing Tatum. dalam muvee Step Up pun ada dia, tp x sure 1 @ 2. 
pssstt, hero Step Up 3D pun hensem jg hahahahha ok bye!

aku mau jadi bini org sd woi!

bila suda update ckit, mula la mau update banyak2. dasar gediks hahaha!


masa cepat berlalu kan, dulu baby, jadi kanak2 riang, pastuh jadi remaja yg mcm hilang-ingatan punya style, pastuh jadi dewasa mcm matang-la-sangat punya style, dan skg mau jadi bini org suda. hahahaha. kenapa ketawa? sebab lucu ok!


bercinta bertahun2 lamanya, terus bertunang setahun dan terus kawin utk bertahun2 lama nya, Insya Allah hingga ke akhir hayat.


bila kahwin? - less than 30 days


kahwin dgn sapa? - dengan Channing Tatum. ehh silap, dgn bakal suami la =D (siapa Channing Tatum? next entry ok?)


rasa2 nya, ada ka admirer aku yg frust tgk aku kahwin? hahahahhahahaha ok bye!

eh ada lagi blog kau ni?

rasa mcm mau ketawa jak kuat-kuat hahahahha! baru teringat psl blog ni. dan konon2 mau update la ni. hahaha ketawa lagi. lucu okeh baca blog sendiri yg suda berhabuk-karat ni. blog ni created masa aku di Perlis dulu, 2009. nah kau, skg suda 2011 ok? ini pun mau ujung tahun suda. huhuhu what a life la kan?


actually dlm ketawa2 tu aku sedih jg sebenarnya bila baca entry pasal raya tu tiba2 teringat arwah bapa. yaaa, arwah bapa saya! ='(


ok suda mau start emo, jd kita berhenti d cni. bye! =D